Women allowed on FrankTalk?

Anything goes when it comes to ED.
Larry10625

Re: Lift the female posting ban on FT - Please consider it.

Postby Larry10625 » Mon Aug 06, 2018 12:00 am

strongagain wrote:Only the dumbest idiot on this planet would ban females from participating.



The members that wish for this website remain MEN ONLY, are no more "dumb idiots" then the men that who keep pushing for the ban to be lifted on women. Furthermore, I would certainly hope that our members would not allow their lady friends to come on here and troll. Come on guys, a little respect and ethics would be expected and appreciated.

Larry

pyronies_dave
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Re: Lift the female posting ban on FT - Please consider it.

Postby pyronies_dave » Mon Aug 06, 2018 3:29 am

Sorry Larry, but I don't understand why (and apologies if I have misread your intention) you think women would come here 'to troll' rather than to participate. It is 2018 after all, and men are just as likely to be trolls than women. As a member of peyroniesforum as well as this one, I can't say I have noticed any downside to allowing women to participate. Indeed, this thread has so far shown some good reasons why they should and I have yet to read anything of substance from anyone against them participating - and I don't count please don't as substance :-)
54 year old UK-based, married, Peyronie's for two years. Awaiting NHS surgery (graft and implant) with Oliver Kayes at St James's Hospital, Leeds.

lenders
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Re: Lift the female posting ban on FT - Please consider it.

Postby lenders » Mon Aug 06, 2018 3:42 am

The forum is fine as it is now

Women here would only restrict the freedom of expression and begin to say this is males chauvinist and the other also, preventing men from speaking freely, this is a problem of men not of women

MK1965
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Re: Lift the female posting ban on FT - Please consider it.

Postby MK1965 » Mon Aug 06, 2018 5:23 am

PLEASE KEEP IT.
This is men’s problem and it should be kept for men only.
I am a member of American Cancer Society CSN forums, and believe me, whenever I enter chat room it is just full of women. Hardly to find guy to talk and ask a question. Kind of annoying to here about just their suffering like no male exsist in the world. Do we need same here.
I HOPE NOT.
Do not get me wrong! I don’t have anything against women. I am married man in very long relationship and I know many wives who are supporting their husbands thru this whole ordeal and they are very helpful in decision making.
But here, I would rather keep it as “men only”.
Thanks,
MK
IPP 9/5/18; TITAN OTR 18 +1cm RTE,Prostate Ca at 51 y/o; RARP 11/2/16, ED Post RP, Cialis, Viagra, VED,TRIMIX painful, BIMIX ineffective,lost 2+ inches of length after RP. Revision 12/2/20 by Dr Clavell, AMS 700 CX, L 21 R 21+1.5 RTE.

Larry10625

Re: Lift the female posting ban on FT - Please consider it.

Postby Larry10625 » Mon Aug 06, 2018 7:21 am

pyronies_dave wrote:Sorry Larry, but I don't understand why (and apologies if I have misread your intention) you think women would come here 'to troll' rather than to participate. It is 2018 after all, and men are just as likely to be trolls than women. As a member of peyroniesforum as well as this one, I can't say I have noticed any downside to allowing women to participate. Indeed, this thread has so far shown some good reasons why they should and I have yet to read anything of substance from anyone against them participating - and I don't count please don't as substance :-)



By troll I mean look/read around. Every time this subject comes up my private mail box gets full really quickly from members practically begging to keep it men only. Many members NEED this site to maintain sanity and are not comfortable doing it if women are participate in the conversation. You say that you can't see any downside in them being allowed membership but, there are many who can't see an upside to it either. I am with the majority, Paul created it to be men only and I support that opinion.

Larry

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Re: Lift the female posting ban on FT - Please consider it.

Postby Mr stuby » Mon Aug 06, 2018 8:17 am

so now where in to name calling when we cant have our way. I am neutral, but please do not try and take what belongs to some one else!
74yr.old married 54yrs pc11/13 rad seed implants started ved 1/14 .implanted 11/20/2016 ams lgx 18+1 11 up 8 down 6 1/2 flaccid 7 5/8
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Re: Lift the female posting ban on FT - Please consider it.

Postby mr.skin » Mon Aug 06, 2018 8:25 am

It would be greatly appreciated to have women insights, especially from younger women on implants.

But I think no women will ever come on their own and look for penile implants, it s more about those guys being in serious relationships with women to "make" them tell us. Maybe we could make some specific questions catalogue in a corresponding thread (and pin it to the top) and some guys are willing to "interview" their partner ?

E.g.

i) How old are you ?

ii) Did your partner receive the implant during your relationship or beforehand.

iii) How do you feel about not being able to arouse your partner (in terms of an erection) without pumping up

iv) How do you feel about the long-lasting (basically ever-lasting) erection ?

v) How did intercourse change for you after implantation / Whats the biggest difference in intercourse between bionic - non-bionic

etc.

I'd highly appreciate organizing something like this.
1993
ED since 2012
nothing works properly

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Re: Lift the female posting ban on FT - Please consider it.

Postby David_R » Mon Aug 06, 2018 9:03 am

Well, here is my two cents' worth.

I have been in online prostate cancer support groups (and in one of the in-person prostate cancer supports that I have belonged to through the years), and it seems to be overwhelmingly women who post/share in those groups. It was explained to me that (traditionally anyway) women are more comfortable sharing their feelings on private matters than men are. But it always felt to me that sharing with women about how it impacts my life when I (1) no longer am able to ejaculate, (2) no longer am able to have an erection, and (3) can celebrate the joy of being able to "get it up again" is something that deep down inside only we men can understand.

(Sometimes I have explained it to women that there are no jokes that I'm aware of about a woman who can't lubricate, but there are plenty of jokes about a guy who can't get it up. And I/we don't want to be one of those guys.)

Maybe women supporting men with E.D. could form their own website or develop a group at Facebook or something. I would prefer to talk man-to-man in here about our dicks and how they work (or don't work). We guys can relate on a personal and emotional level rather than on an intellectual level like just a discussion of "What It's Like to Have E.D."

Just my two cents' worth. (And my wife agrees with me on this.)

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Re: Lift the female posting ban on FT - Please consider it.

Postby purcelldds » Mon Aug 06, 2018 10:42 am

mr.skin wrote:It would be greatly appreciated to have women insights, especially from younger women on implants.

But I think no women will ever come on their own and look for penile implants, it s more about those guys being in serious relationships with women to "make" them tell us. Maybe we could make some specific questions catalogue in a corresponding thread (and pin it to the top) and some guys are willing to "interview" their partner ?

E.g.

i) How old are you ?

ii) Did your partner receive the implant during your relationship or beforehand.

iii) How do you feel about not being able to arouse your partner (in terms of an erection) without pumping up

iv) How do you feel about the long-lasting (basically ever-lasting) erection ?

v) How did intercourse change for you after implantation / Whats the biggest difference in intercourse between bionic - non-bionic

etc.

I'd highly appreciate organizing something like this.


All very good questions!
55 years old, fit, healthy, married. Mild to mod ED 3 years. Peyronies for one year, history of trauma/penile fracture. Pills no longer working well. Implanted by Dr Eid with a 22cm Titan on 12/19/2018. Started cycling day 4. Sex on day 24.

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Re: Women allowed on FrankTalk?

Postby David_R » Mon Aug 06, 2018 3:14 pm

(I posted a response at the other discussion about women being allowed to join FT. I hope you can find that discussion (use search above) so we won't have to duplicate postings. Thank you, brothers.)


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