How to deal with the Hinge effect

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How to deal with the Hinge effect

Postby naginati » Fri Jun 08, 2018 10:37 am

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Re: How to deal with the Hinge effect

Postby bldoink » Fri Jun 08, 2018 12:25 pm

I don't really have any advice. It sounds like you're dealing with it pretty well. VEDs and rings aren't a perfect solution but they are a solution that works.

Some guys get a sleeve to wear at the base that both cushions the VED tube and provides some support to combat the hinge effect. Possible source: http://uandmetime.com/products/for-men/. I have no experience with such devices or the linked company so I can't recommend. Just an example.

It sounds like you're doing OK to me. Just keep practicing.
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Re: How to deal with the Hinge effect

Postby naginati » Fri Jun 08, 2018 1:55 pm

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Re: How to deal with the Hinge effect

Postby newtoed » Tue Jun 12, 2018 2:31 am

Dear Friend,
There is no such thing as first time standard position. Every woman expects you to lead the interaction. My best advice to you is sit the girl at the edge of the bed, start kissing and foundling, lay her down, eat her pussy(inspect the goods lol), and start fucking her like that. Perfolect position. She is comfortable, you are in full control and can go forever. You two have 4 free hands to touch each other, play with the clit or use a vibrator. Every girl loves it.
All the best.
Age 54, Single, Los Angeles. Stage 2 rectal cancer in 2013. Radiation, surgery, chemo. In remission for 5 years. Some ED before cancer, complete since. 2-3 units of Trimix 40/30/2 2-3 times a week since Feb/2017 with great success!

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Re: How to deal with the Hinge effect

Postby AnotherOldMan » Tue Jun 12, 2018 7:16 am

I really don't want more gear on my penis after all the cock rings. Hope it doesn't come to that.


I don't suffer from the hinge effect.(Knock on wood.) I have experimented with using the penile sleeve in the last couple of months. Some say it can reduce the hinge effect.
The sleeve does not feel like adding more gear. In fact it reduces the sometimes distracting effect of the rings. When I first used it I followed directions from previous threads on this site and softened it in hot water before putting it on. When I applied the rings there was a moment where I wondered if the ring(s) were on at all as I did not have the usual sensation when they are first applied and did not feel them as usual.

I sometimes like to use a Tantulus C-Ring to "lift" everything up. Since the c-ring goes around the penis and balls and lifts up, the penile sleeve interferes with the effect and, in this case, is a hindrance.
It is also somewhat of a nuisance to have to put on before using a pump and rings and does add another step and time before I am ready.

If you search this site you will find informative discussions where guys have, to varying degrees of success, used the penile sleeve to reduce the hinge effect. I would recommend you read those discussions and then decide. If you decide to try a sleeve at worse you will be out 20 some dollars and some time spent experimenting.
Married 50+ years. Use VED for sex and do
daily exercises with both water and vacuum pumps.

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Re: How to deal with the Hinge effect

Postby justanotherdrumber » Tue Jun 12, 2018 9:51 am

newtoed wrote:Dear Friend,
There is no such thing as first time standard position. Every woman expects you to lead the interaction. My best advice to you is sit the girl at the edge of the bed, start kissing and foundling, lay her down, eat her pussy(inspect the goods lol), and start fucking her like that. Perfolect position. She is comfortable, you are in full control and can go forever. You two have 4 free hands to touch each other, play with the clit or use a vibrator. Every girl loves it.
All the best.


A "Man" taking control and remaining in control is a far more powerful influence under these circumstances tthan some "standard position" she might "expect" from her experiences with other men.

When she feels a man take a strong lead towards sex, biologically women are programed to follow. She shouldn't question your moves unless there would be some physical or medicall objections. [she has a bad back or hemorrhoids or something]

Make it so she just, "wants it" too bad to question anything. Plenty of foreplay and lubrication should do it. [Saliva from eatting pussy is acceptable lube] :o

A wimpy lead might assist her insecurities to surface, then she might begin questioning your advances.

Don't allow your concerns about what she might think mentally defeat you. Act confident.

If she really objects, dump her; she's probably a feminist and "whatever position" Y0U choose to utilize is just the beginnings of your troubles with her !
Erie,PA
Age 64 - g/f 34
Implanted ams700 lgx, 18cm+1cm RTE
March 2018

Larry10625

Re: How to deal with the Hinge effect

Postby Larry10625 » Wed Jun 13, 2018 10:37 am

newtoed wrote:Dear Friend,
There is no such thing as first time standard position. Every woman expects you to lead the interaction. My best advice to you is sit the girl at the edge of the bed, start kissing and foundling, lay her down, eat her pussy(inspect the goods lol), and start fucking her like that. Perfolect position. She is comfortable, you are in full control and can go forever. You two have 4 free hands to touch each other, play with the clit or use a vibrator. Every girl loves it.
All the best.



I like this position and so does Lisa. She gets every mm I have to give her.. I have to push the bed back, centered where it was but, that's a small price to pay. :D

Larry


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