Who have you told?

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Re: Who have you told?

Postby Larry10625 » Mon May 29, 2017 8:16 am

ED2013 wrote:I've only told women I've been intimate with. Otherwise, I share my experiences the best I can with my brothers here on Franktalk.


OK everybody but, when you go for surgery, what do you tell people you had surgery for?

Larry
50 years old, married 28 years. Implanted Mar 30/17 by Dr. Brock of London, Ont, CANADA. (AMS 700 CX 18 + 2). Had implant removed Apr 29/17 due to Septic Shock. Liposuction By Dr. Gan and re-implant by Dr. Brock (AMS LGX 15 + 2) Dec 14/17.

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Re: Who have you told?

Postby dg_moore » Mon May 29, 2017 9:14 am

Larry10625 wrote:
ED2013 wrote:I've only told women I've been intimate with. Otherwise, I share my experiences the best I can with my brothers here on Franktalk.


OK everybody but, when you go for surgery, what do you tell people you had surgery for?

Larry

If you're talking to medical professionals, why on earth would you not tell them you have an implant? Medical facilities need to know your surgical history for a number of reasons. Why try to mislead them?
Dave, 74, Maryland - Implant (Titan) 2008 by Dr. Andrew Kramer - never used due to a stroke that, among other things, ended my sex life.
Life is not the way it's supposed to be, it's the way it is.

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Re: Who have you told?

Postby Larry10625 » Mon May 29, 2017 9:46 am

dg_moore wrote:
Larry10625 wrote:
ED2013 wrote:I've only told women I've been intimate with. Otherwise, I share my experiences the best I can with my brothers here on Franktalk.


OK everybody but, when you go for surgery, what do you tell people you had surgery for?

Larry

If you're talking to medical professionals, why on earth would you not tell them you have an implant? Medical facilities need to know your surgical history for a number of reasons. Why try to mislead them?


No, no, no, not medical people, friends and family who ask "what did you have surgery for"?

Larry
50 years old, married 28 years. Implanted Mar 30/17 by Dr. Brock of London, Ont, CANADA. (AMS 700 CX 18 + 2). Had implant removed Apr 29/17 due to Septic Shock. Liposuction By Dr. Gan and re-implant by Dr. Brock (AMS LGX 15 + 2) Dec 14/17.

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Re: Who have you told?

Postby dg_moore » Mon May 29, 2017 2:56 pm

I told nobody at all except my boss at work that I was having surgery, and he didn't ask what for. Since nobody knew, nobody asked. If they had I would have told them I had a plumbing repair. Nobody I know or am related to would press for details after hearing that.
Dave, 74, Maryland - Implant (Titan) 2008 by Dr. Andrew Kramer - never used due to a stroke that, among other things, ended my sex life.
Life is not the way it's supposed to be, it's the way it is.

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Re: Who have you told?

Postby ShopMan » Mon May 29, 2017 7:03 pm

I told them hernia repair.No one questioned it further. I did tell a brother in law. He thought I was bull s------- him.
80 yrs. Married 60 years. Hypertension but under control with meds.

ED since 1995. Viagra then switched to Cialis. Both quit working.
Was on Trimix. Tri-Mix quit working. Implanted by Dr. Novak Grand Rapids, Mi 12/16/2014 AMS LGX

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Re: Who have you told?

Postby robnine » Mon May 29, 2017 8:55 pm

I said "secret men's business" on Face Book. . . . . . . :D

( Australian Aboriginal women somewhat famously have ""Secret Women's Business")

And my female cousin asked a bit more, and I said "Reduction Surgery". . . . . . .

She loved my answer, and asked no more. . . . . . .

But, seriously speaking, I do tell all of my sex partners, and have told selected friends, and family specially if they indicate ED difficulties.

And others, because of a duty of care to my fellow males and married friends too.

You don't have to slit your wrists, go mad, or become and alcoholic. . . . . . . Just get an implant.
AMS 700 Implant July 2015 Sydney Australia . St Vincent's Private. Dr L Carlo Yuen, and team including Dr Brenner. Excellent. It changed my life... . . .

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Re: Who have you told?

Postby jelquinginjury » Sat Jun 10, 2017 12:38 am

where is seeking? he went for the implant?

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Re: Who have you told?

Postby Flannigan » Fri Jun 16, 2017 1:56 pm

I am 53 now and have been suffering from ED since I was about 45. To my dissapointment it happened right after my divorce when I was ready to go hog wild. I have been using pills (mainly Viagra) ever since. So far they have been working great for me but I am now suffering from some very serious body aches and pains from them.

I have had several female encounters and some were long term relationships (more than a year). I never told any of them and I was able to hide it very easily. However, I have been with my current girlfriend for over 2 years now. I had to tell her recently because I could not take the pills 4 or 5 times a week anymore. It was wreaking havoc on my body. She was somewhat dissapointed that I had not been honest with her and she is dissapointed that we no longer have sex almost everyday but she is doing her best to be supportive. I am now searching for answers on the root cause of my ED problem. I also have very low T at about 225/ng so I am looking into that as the possible culprit. Just started on Anrogel and already noticing a difference. I have night time wood now all the time. It's somewhat bothersome but I am happy to have it back. Hopefully it will still work right in the bedroom.

If I was you...I would keep it to yourself unless you are going to get serious with someone. They have a right to know. I feel kind of bad that I tricked my girlfriend into falling in love with me before I told her. FT is a great place to share your issues because everyone hear can relate. Don't bother telling anyone else. They can't relate anyway and their best attempts to appear empathetic will be feigned.

Good luck mate and remember that everyone has a battle of some sort that they are fighting. You are not alone in yours.

Flannigan
53 years old. Suffering from ED since I was 45. Side effects from Viagra now too much to take. Started Trimix injections July 2017. Very low dose. 6 units @ 8.8/.29/2.9.

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Re: Who have you told?

Postby irishguy » Sun Jun 18, 2017 6:09 am

Hey I suppose it all depends on your relationship to your family friends and Co workers.
I told one of my brothers and my father. They never mention it good or bad,
I told my current girlfriend of course, and 2 friends..
The 2 friends never mention it either. So I have not got much support
with the implant but it was a help to tell someone..


That being said before the implant the previous girlfriend told alot of people after I dumped her
that I couldn't get it up... I lived in a small town so I instantly felt paranoid and
embarrassed..

So I think if someone is having one night stands I personally would say nothing,
also if someone is starting a relationship and you hear your girl telling your personal shit about other
people I.e. friends and Exes, you WILL be discussed
Age 31 Implanted with a 20cm Titan, Mar 19 2013, By Doctor David Ralph in London England,
Overall fairly satisfied, still need a cock ring to keep blood in the glans, which helps with penetration.

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Re: Who have you told?

Postby Larry10625 » Sun Jun 18, 2017 12:46 pm

Flannigan wrote:I am 53 now and have been suffering from ED since I was about 45. To my dissapointment it happened right after my divorce when I was ready to go hog wild. I have been using pills (mainly Viagra) ever since. So far they have been working great for me but I am now suffering from some very serious body aches and pains from them.

I have had several female encounters and some were long term relationships (more than a year). I never told any of them and I was able to hide it very easily. However, I have been with my current girlfriend for over 2 years now. I had to tell her recently because I could not take the pills 4 or 5 times a week anymore. It was wreaking havoc on my body. She was somewhat dissapointed that I had not been honest with her and she is dissapointed that we no longer have sex almost everyday but she is doing her best to be supportive. I am now searching for answers on the root cause of my ED problem. I also have very low T at about 225/ng so I am looking into that as the possible culprit. Just started on Anrogel and already noticing a difference. I have night time wood now all the time. It's somewhat bothersome but I am happy to have it back. Hopefully it will still work right in the bedroom.

If I was you...I would keep it to yourself unless you are going to get serious with someone. They have a right to know. I feel kind of bad that I tricked my girlfriend into falling in love with me before I told her. FT is a great place to share your issues because everyone hear can relate. Don't bother telling anyone else. They can't relate anyway and their best attempts to appear empathetic will be feigned.

Good luck mate and remember that everyone has a battle of some sort that they are fighting. You are not alone in yours.

Flannigan


I used the Androgel too and hated it. I didn't find that it worked and it was a pain in the ass. I now self inject once every three weeks and it works great. You should just take the plunge (implant). ;)

Larry
50 years old, married 28 years. Implanted Mar 30/17 by Dr. Brock of London, Ont, CANADA. (AMS 700 CX 18 + 2). Had implant removed Apr 29/17 due to Septic Shock. Liposuction By Dr. Gan and re-implant by Dr. Brock (AMS LGX 15 + 2) Dec 14/17.


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