Fisting

There is more to sex than an erect penis. How do you maintain your sexuality both for yourself and for your partner? What techniques do you use to give both of you a great, satisfying sex life? How do you explore your own body and sexuality now that the rules have changed?

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Greg1956
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Re: Fisting

Postby Greg1956 » Fri Dec 01, 2017 12:53 pm

I completely agree about that. Most of the body can be an erogenous zone if you let it be.
I am 61. Began having ED at age 30 and tried everything. Implanted by Dr. Ronald Anglade in Atlanta on September 18, 2017. I received an AMS LGX 18cm with 3cm RTE via a Penoscrotal incision. Thrilled with my results. Willing to Show & Tell.

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Re: Fisting

Postby dg_moore » Fri Dec 01, 2017 1:29 pm

Be that as it may, personally the only scenario I can imagine (nightmare, not fantasy) would be being held down by several strong dudes in prison. This is nothing I would ever volunteer for, but to each his own.
Dave, 74, Maryland - Implant (Titan) 2008 by Dr. Andrew Kramer - never used due to a stroke that, among other things, ended my sex life.
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Re: Fisting - Where will it end?

Postby radioradio » Sun Dec 03, 2017 6:49 pm

So sad...


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Re: Fisting

Postby bbb2.5 » Mon Dec 04, 2017 9:34 am

Greg1956 wrote:I completely agree about that. Most of the body can be an erogenous zone if you let it be.

Let me just say... my body fall into that category.
My surgeon is Dr. Hakky , done on June 27, 2017. Cause of ED Venous Leakage. Implanted with a Coloplast Titan 22 cm with 1.5 cm RTE. Reservoir is 110cc. Gay male, if you have personal questions, please PM me.
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CTR5000
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Re: Fisting

Postby CTR5000 » Mon Dec 04, 2017 1:15 pm

Okay... I'll "come clean" so to speak! I first got into fisting probably 25 years ago, give or take. (Give and take too!) Any of my doctors who might ever need to know do, and they never batted an eye when I first brought it up. (Never felt a need to tell my dentist but my primary care physician and colorectal surgeon know! LOL!) I'd never try to proselytize regarding fisting but as for me and my husband, it has been one of the most intimate parts of our sex life. As others have said, if any one thing is required in this act it's trust... trust unlike most have ever known or been called upon to build. I totally understand anyone thinking "No way!" and "Impossible!" just as much as I understand there being 1000's of questions about fisting simply for curiosity's sake. Something the level of fisting SHOULD bring up questions!

In trying to explain fisting to guys who just want to know "Why?" I've found one description to be the most effective at eliciting an "Oh wow... I never imagined that" response:

Gay or Str8: Ever felt your partner's/spouse's/lover's heartbeat? Now imagine that very heartbeat felt from deep within. Your feel your mate's heartbeat surrounding your hand - and your mate feel's his own heartbeat reflected back to him off your fingertips. (I can only speak of the Male/Male fisting experience. While I was married to my now ex-wife for 20 years, this was not part of our sex life... not even a finger... believe me, I begged!)

I've heard of Tibetan Monk's who can be in such a deep (no pun intended!) trance that they can be fisted with absolute ease and not even feel it. Today, colonoscopies are sometimes done without anesthesia if patient and doctor are okay with it.

Hope that sheds just a bit of light on the subject!
Colin

IF anyone is more curious about fisting I've often suggested the following book. While doing his research, the author visited the fisting group I once belonged to.

https://www.amazon.com/First-Hand-Eroti ... 1887895558
Name: Colin - Legally married gay male - suffered with Venous Leakage since my mid-30's - AMS 700 LGX (Length-Girth-eXpansion!) Inflatable Penile Implant "installed?!" April, 2015 - I should've done it YEARS ago!!

bbb2.5
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Re: Fisting

Postby bbb2.5 » Wed Dec 06, 2017 6:03 am

CTR5000 wrote:Okay... I'll "come clean" so to speak! I first got into fisting probably 25 years ago, give or take. (Give and take too!) Any of my doctors who might ever need to know do, and they never batted an eye when I first brought it up. (Never felt a need to tell my dentist but my primary care physician and colorectal surgeon know! LOL!) I'd never try to proselytize regarding fisting but as for me and my husband, it has been one of the most intimate parts of our sex life. As others have said, if any one thing is required in this act it's trust... trust unlike most have ever known or been called upon to build. I totally understand anyone thinking "No way!" and "Impossible!" just as much as I understand there being 1000's of questions about fisting simply for curiosity's sake. Something the level of fisting SHOULD bring up questions!

In trying to explain fisting to guys who just want to know "Why?" I've found one description to be the most effective at eliciting an "Oh wow... I never imagined that" response:

Gay or Str8: Ever felt your partner's/spouse's/lover's heartbeat? Now imagine that very heartbeat felt from deep within. Your feel your mate's heartbeat surrounding your hand - and your mate feel's his own heartbeat reflected back to him off your fingertips. (I can only speak of the Male/Male fisting experience. While I was married to my now ex-wife for 20 years, this was not part of our sex life... not even a finger... believe me, I begged!)

I've heard of Tibetan Monk's who can be in such a deep (no pun intended!) trance that they can be fisted with absolute ease and not even feel it. Today, colonoscopies are sometimes done without anesthesia if patient and doctor are okay with it.

Hope that sheds just a bit of light on the subject!
Colin

IF anyone is more curious about fisting I've often suggested the following book. While doing his research, the author visited the fisting group I once belonged to.

https://www.amazon.com/First-Hand-Eroti ... 1887895558


Well said Colin...
My surgeon is Dr. Hakky , done on June 27, 2017. Cause of ED Venous Leakage. Implanted with a Coloplast Titan 22 cm with 1.5 cm RTE. Reservoir is 110cc. Gay male, if you have personal questions, please PM me.
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