touble getting wife on board

There is more to sex than an erect penis. How do you maintain your sexuality both for yourself and for your partner? What techniques do you use to give both of you a great, satisfying sex life? How do you explore your own body and sexuality now that the rules have changed?

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Re: touble getting wife on board

Postby dg_moore » Mon Mar 13, 2017 3:42 pm

Cigar56 wrote:
AnotherOldMan wrote:
If you both want sex, or neither wants sex, everything is fine. It's that middle ground where everything goes south.


Very true! My feeling is that she more or less set the time, place and frequency(with few exceptions) when we were "in our prime". If for any reason she wished to shut
it down at this stage then that is what we would do and I would do my best to make it seem like a mutual decision.


Well, I am 61 and my sex drive seems higher than ever. At this point I would not stop having sex if my wife simply decided to quit. If she did that I would exercise my right to masturbate in private, which of course is a form of sex. Whether that would be enough would be something we'd have to determine.


Nothing wrong with sex with someone you love! :lol:
Dave, 74, Maryland - Implant (Titan) 2008 by Dr. Andrew Kramer - never used due to a stroke that, among other things, ended my sex life.
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Re: touble getting wife on board

Postby Cigar56 » Mon Mar 13, 2017 3:50 pm

Yeah, the late comic Richard Pryor once said he never had pussy better than his right hand.
Age 61 as of 2017. Under "active surveillance" for small amounts of cancer in prostate as of 2016. Quit using ED pills and now using injections. Considering an implant. Surgeon advises shrinking prostate to avoid damaging bladder during RALP.

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Re: touble getting wife on board

Postby AnotherOldMan » Mon Mar 13, 2017 7:46 pm

Yeah, the late comic Richard Pryor once said he never had pussy better than his right hand.


Yeah but that was before Fleshlights!

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Re: touble getting wife on board

Postby rick61 » Sat Mar 18, 2017 9:14 pm

I'm in same situation but fortunate enough to have a buddy that is in same situation. His wife also has lost interest. We have been best friends for years so we are now taking care of the situation and enjoying it. Sex is sex and I just get it where I find it.

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Re: touble getting wife on board

Postby Cigar56 » Sat Mar 18, 2017 11:28 pm

rick61 wrote:I'm in same situation but fortunate enough to have a buddy that is in same situation. His wife also has lost interest. We have been best friends for years so we are now taking care of the situation and enjoying it. Sex is sex and I just get it where I find it.


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Age 61 as of 2017. Under "active surveillance" for small amounts of cancer in prostate as of 2016. Quit using ED pills and now using injections. Considering an implant. Surgeon advises shrinking prostate to avoid damaging bladder during RALP.

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Re: touble getting wife on board

Postby bldoink » Mon Apr 10, 2017 10:30 pm

Get a good vibrating toy and use it on her. See what happens. I'm not an expert on the subject but I'm sure you could get some good suggestions if you want.
R.R.P 2011 Mayo Jacksonville by Dr. Michael Wehle. Nerve sparing but damaged. V.E.D, Viagra and Alprostadil manually injected. Originally Edex20. Switched to Alprostadil from compounding pharmacy - cost. Injecting 5-6 yrs. It works. Treasure coast of FL.

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Re: touble getting wife on board

Postby rode2nowhere » Tue Jun 06, 2017 8:28 am

I understand your pain, very disappointed in my wife

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Re: touble getting wife on board

Postby newtoed » Fri Jun 09, 2017 2:02 am

When my wife 22 year of my junior stopped having passionate sex with me and made me feel not wanted after a year of trying to reestablish our love I left her and don't feel bad at all. I have one life to live. I don't want to live one minute unhappy and Unsatisfied. If she doesn't care why should I. I am not an asshole and made extra effort to bring out her sexuality and she enjoyed sex like never before. Lost interest for whatever reason,too bad.
Now I'm having sex with girls in their 20's and 30's every day almost and feel like a man (I'm 52). I have a 15 inch scar on my stomach, a hernia, no navel, no butt hole and wear a colostomy bag on my stomach. The girls are beautiful and love me like crazy. I have never been so happy and content. We man can move mountains, fly to the moon and soon to other planets. We are born to get whatever we want!
All the best friends.
Age 52, Single, Los Angeles. Stage 2 rectal cancer in 2013. Radiation, surgery, chemo. In remission for 4 years. Some ED before cancer, complete since. 3-4 units of Trimix 40/30/2 2-3 times a week since Feb/2017 with great success!


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