Weird sexual turn offs ?

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Bjones
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Weird sexual turn offs ?

Postby Bjones » Thu Feb 16, 2017 12:15 am

Ok here goes, when I see an attractive woman I will generally approach and make conversation..im an excellent read of women and sometimes I can tell if she is down for sex or no..if she starts giving me strong signals that she is into me, it is almost like a light switch that goes off in my head..it's my sex drive turning off..it can literally go from 'horny' to 'off' in a matter of minutes..when this happens it will be very rare if my sex drive turns back on for this lady..even if she does everything right, my sexual hunger just isn't there..people say that this means I do it for the chase but that isn't true at all because I generally hate approaching and making small talk..

Any tips you guys could give me go try and fix this?i just don't have the natural strong sex drive of most men..I've never heard or read of other cases where men talked about this type of mental roadblock so

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Re: Weird sexual turn offs ?

Postby Lost Sheep » Sat Feb 18, 2017 5:07 pm

Bjones wrote:Ok here goes, when I see an attractive woman I will generally approach and make conversation..im an excellent read of women and sometimes I can tell if she is down for sex or no..if she starts giving me strong signals that she is into me, it is almost like a light switch that goes off in my head..it's my sex drive turning off..it can literally go from 'horny' to 'off' in a matter of minutes..when this happens it will be very rare if my sex drive turns back on for this lady..even if she does everything right, my sexual hunger just isn't there..people say that this means I do it for the chase but that isn't true at all because I generally hate approaching and making small talk..

Any tips you guys could give me go try and fix this?i just don't have the natural strong sex drive of most men..I've never heard or read of other cases where men talked about this type of mental roadblock so

That is puzzling. I appreciate the concern you must feel. I am sorry I don't have substantial advice to give you.

Perhaps if you take the expectation of sex off the table. Put it out of your mind. Approach a woman with whom you may have something else in common, like political views, a hobby, a music genre, etc. Have only the expectation that you might enjoy each other's company platonically. See what develops. Affection, romance, sexual feelings that stay could grow slowly. It couldn't hurt, could it?

Good luck

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Re: Weird sexual turn offs ?

Postby charlesr » Mon Feb 20, 2017 12:11 pm

This could be a good thing. Maybe you're one of those rare men who actually prefer a relationship with women (or a woman) before sex takes over. I would let your sex drive turn off and get something going on a different level and the drive will return when the right time comes. Just a thought.
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