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Re: Masturbation during marriage
Posted: Thu Aug 24, 2017 11:36 am
by Larry10625
hturner12 wrote:Larry10625 wrote:WOW, you guys are like super heroes to me. I am sooooooooo embarrassed about masturbating. My wife has caught me... she rarely says anything to me about it and if she does, it's usually a question... (I can't even think of any at this moment). A couple of months ago, my daughters fiancé caught me... I was so embarrassed about it I avoided him for a week. He never said anything to me about it, but I know he caught me, and then he probably told my daughter which is much worse. I know it natural and all that other BS, I just can't avoid being embarrassed. As for how do I get it up, there are hundreds of web sites where you don't have to sign up and they are free and they have short videos, which is good for me as I currently don't need long ones. After Dec 7th that will all change.
Larry
Not to hijack or get off topic i found I have lost interest in porn videos, would rather read a story but even some of those the bullshit flag goes up real fast
Yeah, me too a little.
Re: Masturbation during marriage
Posted: Thu Aug 24, 2017 11:56 am
by Anonymous3
Larry10625 wrote:hturner12 wrote:Larry10625 wrote:WOW, you guys are like super heroes to me. I am sooooooooo embarrassed about masturbating. My wife has caught me... she rarely says anything to me about it and if she does, it's usually a question... (I can't even think of any at this moment). A couple of months ago, my daughters fiancé caught me... I was so embarrassed about it I avoided him for a week. He never said anything to me about it, but I know he caught me, and then he probably told my daughter which is much worse. I know it natural and all that other BS, I just can't avoid being embarrassed. As for how do I get it up, there are hundreds of web sites where you don't have to sign up and they are free and they have short videos, which is good for me as I currently don't need long ones. After Dec 7th that will all change.
Larry
Not to hijack or get off topic i found I have lost interest in porn videos, would rather read a story but even some of those the bullshit flag goes up real fast
Yeah, me too a little.
I think in my case it because of researching and learning because the ED.
Re: Masturbation during marriage
Posted: Thu Aug 24, 2017 12:04 pm
by Larry10625
hturner12 wrote:Larry10625 wrote:hturner12 wrote:Not to hijack or get off topic i found I have lost interest in porn videos, would rather read a story but even some of those the bullshit flag goes up real fast
Yeah, me too a little.
I think in my case it because of researching and learning because the ED.
Yeah, that would make sense... I think with me it's just that I have been watching them so long, nothing seems really hot and horny anymore.
Larry
Re: Masturbation during marriage
Posted: Thu Aug 24, 2017 12:08 pm
by Anonymous3
If someone says they dont jack I see a bullshit flag
Re: Masturbation during marriage
Posted: Thu Aug 24, 2017 12:27 pm
by Jerryf
I think all guys jack off. I've been doing it since I discovered it. This is the longest I've gone without it since I was 11. Next week I get activated it will be 6 weeks. I look forward to two things. Sex with the wife again and a
nice hard one in my hand again.
Re: Masturbation during marriage
Posted: Thu Aug 24, 2017 2:43 pm
by Anonymous3
After being told lack of use was a big cause of the plaque and scaring. Once the surgery is over and I am activated sex and jacking will be daily
Re: Masturbation during marriage
Posted: Sat Sep 16, 2017 10:17 am
by retexan599
hturner12 wrote:Not to hijack or get off topic i found I have lost interest in porn videos, would rather read a story but even some of those the bullshit flag goes up real fast
Yeah, that can be a problem. I manage it with variety. I have a collection of images that I refresh from time to time by removing old ones and adding new ones. My main sources of new images are a variety of erotic Tumblr blogs that I follow, plus some from the Literotica web site forum threads. Literotica also has wide selection of stories that you can try various genres to get fresh inspiration.
I prefer still images or some GIF clips over porn videos; the still images allow your imagination to better come into play. Porn videos are so scripted that they lose credibility with me.
Funny, we used to get by with the occasional Playboy centerfold....
Re: Masturbation during marriage
Posted: Sat Sep 16, 2017 10:59 am
by Anonymous3
And the real hard porn of Hustler.
Re: Masturbation during marriage
Posted: Sat Sep 30, 2017 8:47 pm
by ShopMan
kbadair_2002 wrote:I have been married just over 43 years. Back in 1972 right after my marriage, I still had the urge to masturbate and did not think it was normal. At that time I never ever discussed such a topic with any man or even my doctor. I had and still have a strong libido and am very thankful. At the time of the Internet---about 2000---I found that other married men did do this. I began masturbating when I was fourteen. I still do it 2 to 3 times weekly. It is such a relief to be able to do it without waiting for my wife to be in the mood.
I see nothing wrong with it. When she is not in the mood she on rare ocation will jack me off. And when she is in the mood and I am not often masterbate her.
Charlie
Re: Masturbation during marriage
Posted: Mon Oct 23, 2017 11:25 am
by Greg1956
I started masturbating on my 11th Birthday and never stopped. I have always had a high se. drive and even when my wife and I have sex, I still enjoy masturbation. My wife is aware I do it but I try to do it when she is busy so she doesn’t feel like she can’t satisfy me.
