Masturbation during marriage

There is more to sex than an erect penis. How do you maintain your sexuality both for yourself and for your partner? What techniques do you use to give both of you a great, satisfying sex life? How do you explore your own body and sexuality now that the rules have changed?
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Re: Masturbation during marriage

Postby Larry10625 » Thu Aug 24, 2017 11:36 am

hturner12 wrote:
Larry10625 wrote:
ddbryan1972 wrote:I 'beat it' 4 to 5 times a week. Never discuss my solos with my wife unless she asks. She rarely asks as I do my homework. Very well I might add! I'm a sex machine. I'm bionic. 8-) 8-) 8-) 8-)



WOW, you guys are like super heroes to me. I am sooooooooo embarrassed about masturbating. My wife has caught me... she rarely says anything to me about it and if she does, it's usually a question... (I can't even think of any at this moment). A couple of months ago, my daughters fiancé caught me... I was so embarrassed about it I avoided him for a week. He never said anything to me about it, but I know he caught me, and then he probably told my daughter which is much worse. I know it natural and all that other BS, I just can't avoid being embarrassed. As for how do I get it up, there are hundreds of web sites where you don't have to sign up and they are free and they have short videos, which is good for me as I currently don't need long ones. After Dec 7th that will all change. :D

Larry

Not to hijack or get off topic i found I have lost interest in porn videos, would rather read a story but even some of those the bullshit flag goes up real fast



Yeah, me too a little. :(
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Re: Masturbation during marriage

Postby Anonymous3 » Thu Aug 24, 2017 11:56 am

Larry10625 wrote:
hturner12 wrote:
Larry10625 wrote:

WOW, you guys are like super heroes to me. I am sooooooooo embarrassed about masturbating. My wife has caught me... she rarely says anything to me about it and if she does, it's usually a question... (I can't even think of any at this moment). A couple of months ago, my daughters fiancé caught me... I was so embarrassed about it I avoided him for a week. He never said anything to me about it, but I know he caught me, and then he probably told my daughter which is much worse. I know it natural and all that other BS, I just can't avoid being embarrassed. As for how do I get it up, there are hundreds of web sites where you don't have to sign up and they are free and they have short videos, which is good for me as I currently don't need long ones. After Dec 7th that will all change. :D

Larry

Not to hijack or get off topic i found I have lost interest in porn videos, would rather read a story but even some of those the bullshit flag goes up real fast



Yeah, me too a little. :(

I think in my case it because of researching and learning because the ED.

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Re: Masturbation during marriage

Postby Larry10625 » Thu Aug 24, 2017 12:04 pm

hturner12 wrote:
Larry10625 wrote:
hturner12 wrote:Not to hijack or get off topic i found I have lost interest in porn videos, would rather read a story but even some of those the bullshit flag goes up real fast



Yeah, me too a little. :(

I think in my case it because of researching and learning because the ED.



Yeah, that would make sense... I think with me it's just that I have been watching them so long, nothing seems really hot and horny anymore.

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Re: Masturbation during marriage

Postby Anonymous3 » Thu Aug 24, 2017 12:08 pm

If someone says they dont jack I see a bullshit flag

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Re: Masturbation during marriage

Postby Jerryf » Thu Aug 24, 2017 12:27 pm

I think all guys jack off. I've been doing it since I discovered it. This is the longest I've gone without it since I was 11. Next week I get activated it will be 6 weeks. I look forward to two things. Sex with the wife again and a :lol: :lol: nice hard one in my hand again.
Turning 60 August of 2017. July 18 of 2017 implanted with ams 700. Have had ED for over 15 years. Diabetic for 20 years. Had five heart bypassed done in 2013. Married 37 years.

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Re: Masturbation during marriage

Postby Anonymous3 » Thu Aug 24, 2017 2:43 pm

After being told lack of use was a big cause of the plaque and scaring. Once the surgery is over and I am activated sex and jacking will be daily

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Re: Masturbation during marriage

Postby retexan599 » Sat Sep 16, 2017 10:17 am

hturner12 wrote:Not to hijack or get off topic i found I have lost interest in porn videos, would rather read a story but even some of those the bullshit flag goes up real fast


Yeah, that can be a problem. I manage it with variety. I have a collection of images that I refresh from time to time by removing old ones and adding new ones. My main sources of new images are a variety of erotic Tumblr blogs that I follow, plus some from the Literotica web site forum threads. Literotica also has wide selection of stories that you can try various genres to get fresh inspiration.

I prefer still images or some GIF clips over porn videos; the still images allow your imagination to better come into play. Porn videos are so scripted that they lose credibility with me.

Funny, we used to get by with the occasional Playboy centerfold....
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Re: Masturbation during marriage

Postby Anonymous3 » Sat Sep 16, 2017 10:59 am

And the real hard porn of Hustler.

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Re: Masturbation during marriage

Postby ShopMan » Sat Sep 30, 2017 8:47 pm

kbadair_2002 wrote:I have been married just over 43 years. Back in 1972 right after my marriage, I still had the urge to masturbate and did not think it was normal. At that time I never ever discussed such a topic with any man or even my doctor. I had and still have a strong libido and am very thankful. At the time of the Internet---about 2000---I found that other married men did do this. I began masturbating when I was fourteen. I still do it 2 to 3 times weekly. It is such a relief to be able to do it without waiting for my wife to be in the mood.


I see nothing wrong with it. When she is not in the mood she on rare ocation will jack me off. And when she is in the mood and I am not often masterbate her.
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Re: Masturbation during marriage

Postby Greg1956 » Mon Oct 23, 2017 11:25 am

I started masturbating on my 11th Birthday and never stopped. I have always had a high se. drive and even when my wife and I have sex, I still enjoy masturbation. My wife is aware I do it but I try to do it when she is busy so she doesn’t feel like she can’t satisfy me.
I am 62 and had 30 years of ED. Implanted by Dr. Ronald Anglade in Atlanta on 9/18/17. I have an AMS LGX 18cm w/3cm RTE via a Penoscrotal incision. Currently 5” deflated and 6” inflated, 5.5” girth. Willing to Show & Tell.


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