Anal stimulation post prostatectomy

There is more to sex than an erect penis. How do you maintain your sexuality both for yourself and for your partner? What techniques do you use to give both of you a great, satisfying sex life? How do you explore your own body and sexuality now that the rules have changed?

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Re: Anal stimulation post prostatectomy

Postby barfinkl1 » Sun May 22, 2011 6:29 am

Hey Pat...I'm gonna download my skype and will be with you when that's done. Give me a bit.


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Re: Anal stimulation post prostatectomy

Postby barfinkl1 » Sun May 22, 2011 8:44 am

Got my aneros progasm yesterday's mail but finally got to use it this morning. My wife spent the night at the grandson's house and my son, daughter and son-in-law went to see Pirates of the Caribbean last night and didn't get home until 11 pm. Good movie but not as good as the first ones.

Anyway, I inserted the progasm this morning after cleansing and injecting some lube. It's considerably bigger than the MGX or whatever the basic model is called. But it did go in...as I was told, what comes out of there is bigger than what you're putting in. Soooo, I waited patiently, but nothing much happened. I do think I had a couple contractions, but they were very mild. I hope next time will be better. I haven't given up hope as some of you on this site have said they have orgasms with it and of course, the videos show some incredible orgasms using it.

Believe me, if I have one, you'll probably be able to hear me yell.

Have a good day all and best of luck.

Steve
Age 63 married 41 years...2 kids and 2 grandkids. Had robotic RP in Apr 2008. Negative PSA since then. Suffered ED initially from Type II diabetes and then the RP. Had AMS700 LGX implant on 7 Nov 11.

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Re: Anal stimulation post prostatectomy

Postby notsostiff » Sun May 22, 2011 3:00 pm

I wore a ring but it still leaked quicker than I would have liked. However, to have intercourse for the first time in 5 months and orgasm was a great result. :D
Had a robotic prostatectomy on 16 Dec 2010, with partial bi-lateral nerve sparing.

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Re: Anal stimulation post prostatectomy

Postby barfinkl1 » Mon May 23, 2011 8:05 am

Great news. I wish you continued success as you proceed down the path to healing.

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Age 63 married 41 years...2 kids and 2 grandkids. Had robotic RP in Apr 2008. Negative PSA since then. Suffered ED initially from Type II diabetes and then the RP. Had AMS700 LGX implant on 7 Nov 11.

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Re: Anal stimulation post prostatectomy

Postby MIDBOB293 » Mon Dec 05, 2011 12:47 pm

I am ordering the Aneros MGX product to see if it assists and obtaining a more improved feeling with orgasm. It seems to take a very long time to get there and it seems like I have to jo in order to finish. Anyone had success with this as along with being orally stimulated? I had seed implants and radiation and no the radical prostatectomy. Any comments anyone? Thanks
Had external beam radiation and brachytherapy 2010 with some ED soon after. Viagra works, Some loss of sensation,

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Re: Anal stimulation post prostatectomy

Postby regain-is-the-aim » Tue Dec 06, 2011 11:07 am

Bob:

The Aneros is a great tool/toy. I have the Progasm and would recommend you consider it. It has 2 posts rather than one and I think that makes a difference to those of us who have fought the PCa. I had the robotic surgery. The results for me have been amazing! Even without a prostate there are a lot of nerves there. With your rad therapy no doubt there have been damage nerves and this toy may be able, over time to awaken or restart some of the communications down there.

It does provide a totally different experience. Totally. It is a deep nerve and anal response and has become a new addition to pleasure and wonder for my new sexual normal. For me, my penis is really not involved with the Progasm and I don't care. The sensations and reaching what they call the "Big O" is in a universe by itself! The resulting ride can last from 5 to 20 minutes and provides wave after wave of pleasure and muscle contractions.

The cumulative effects of its use seem to help my erection quality and may well assist you in reaching a climax more easily. Now its use requires quiet, patience and time. It was about four session before I had my first "O" response. I think it is also an alone toy as the sensation, muscle contractions, etc are best enjoyed in private.

Suggest you order and begin a new form of self-pleasure. If I can assist in any way just contact me. It is a GREAT addition to our lives and sense of commanding pleasure.

Good luck

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Re: Anal stimulation post prostatectomy

Postby bgbrabant » Tue Jan 24, 2012 9:46 am

Dick thank you so much for your sensitivity, sensuality and gentle frankness in sharing experiences. You're making a difference. Your discussions on anal stimulation and sexuality have taken me in new and exciting directions.

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Re: Anal stimulation post prostatectomy

Postby Spartan » Sat Feb 04, 2012 4:36 pm

I'm glad I discovered this particular thread. I'm also very thankful to have been directed to FrankTalk in the first place.

I've had an aneros Progasm for a couple of years now. Although I always found it pleasurable, I never experienced the Big O that some guys experience.

After my prostectomy, I figured that without a prostate, the aneros was history. In fact, I gave my Helix to a friend, but I still have my Progasm. Having read this thread, I'm anxious to find some quiet time home alone to give it a try again. At a minimum, if it adds some pleasure, I'm all for it.

Thanks for the info.....

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Re: Anal stimulation post prostatectomy

Postby notsostiff » Sun Feb 05, 2012 7:13 am

Spartan wrote:I'm glad I discovered this particular thread. I'm also very thankful to have been directed to FrankTalk in the first place.

I've had an aneros Progasm for a couple of years now. Although I always found it pleasurable, I never experienced the Big O that some guys experience.

After my prostectomy, I figured that without a prostate, the aneros was history. In fact, I gave my Helix to a friend, but I still have my Progasm. Having read this thread, I'm anxious to find some quiet time home alone to give it a try again. At a minimum, if it adds some pleasure, I'm all for it.

Thanks for the info.....

Thanks for posting this. Please post again when you have tried it. I am intrigued to know if will help us guys who no longer have a prostate.
Had a robotic prostatectomy on 16 Dec 2010, with partial bi-lateral nerve sparing.

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Re: Anal stimulation post prostatectomy

Postby regain-is-the-aim » Sun Feb 05, 2012 12:28 pm

notso:

Yes it does!! I have a Progasm and no prostate. This toy does work and works very well for me. I think for those of us sans prostate the larger size, to fill the void, and the second post make a difference.

It takes time and this device has a mind of it own and works its magic it its own time not mine- but the ride is amazing.

If I can answer any ?'s contact me. But- this, in my opinion is an alone toy- quiet and you and it.

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