Older wives

There is more to sex than an erect penis. How do you maintain your sexuality both for yourself and for your partner? What techniques do you use to give both of you a great, satisfying sex life? How do you explore your own body and sexuality now that the rules have changed?
ShopMan
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Re: Older wives

Postby ShopMan » Fri Oct 07, 2016 8:29 pm

CharlesR I think the beer before would be better. :lol: :lol: Or maybe two or three. Actually guys I have gone down on her but never after my climax. Yes, things are going well. Better then I should expect at our ages. But even she says she is always looking for new experiences. As am I. So, I will wait for the right opportunity. Actually, I am not always able to ejaculate. But that's another whole problem.
80 yrs. Married 60 years. Hypertension but under control with meds.

ED since 1995. Viagra then switched to Cialis. Both quit working.
Was on Trimix. Tri-Mix quit working. Implanted by Dr. Novak Grand Rapids, Mi 12/16/2014 AMS LGX

ShopMan
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Re: Older wives

Postby ShopMan » Wed Nov 09, 2016 10:08 pm

At 79 now with a 78 year old wife we have always enjoyed a vigerus sex life. My wife is multi orgasmic and for the first time in our married life (almost 60 years) it is almost as good as when we were much younger. I will admit that because of my very bad back and her being aflicted by the same we can't enjoy sex as often as we used to and of course don't engage in the gymnastics sexually we used to. :( Reading over some of the above comments I guess we are in some ways lucky.
I guess it comes down to your luck of the draw when first selecting your life mate.
Most guys I know of would not "dump" a mate solely on the basis of a bad sex life.
Charlie
Implanted just two years ago Dec. 16 2014
80 yrs. Married 60 years. Hypertension but under control with meds.

ED since 1995. Viagra then switched to Cialis. Both quit working.
Was on Trimix. Tri-Mix quit working. Implanted by Dr. Novak Grand Rapids, Mi 12/16/2014 AMS LGX

bisonbill
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Re: Older wives

Postby bisonbill » Thu Nov 10, 2016 11:15 am

I have recently dated 2 women. The 68 year old one always has an orgasm during intrcourse & enjoys it 2x a week. The 63 year old orgasms thru oral sex but likes it 5 times a week. It's not age but mind set

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Re: Older wives

Postby Chasss » Fri Mar 31, 2017 12:25 pm

My wife is 71. Last night she climaxed with her boyfriend BOB.( Battery Operated Boyfriend.) Climax put her right to sleep ... But made me semi hard. LOL

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Re: Older wives

Postby AnotherOldMan » Fri Mar 31, 2017 3:25 pm

It's not age but mind set


Yes and also anatomy. For example, the distance of the clitoris from the vaginal opening is a huge factor in whether the woman has trouble climaxing from PIV. As you say though, mind set, after all the human brain is the largest sex organ we have.
Married 50+ years. Use VED for sex and do
daily exercises with both water and vacuum pumps.

rancherejim
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Re: Older wives

Postby rancherejim » Sun Apr 15, 2018 10:53 pm

My wife of many years just shut down after menopause. Won't even discuss it. She believes that if you don't talk about it the problem will just go away. After 20 years the problem still is with us. I have since found other ways to keep my sanity. Hookers.
77 years old, married 58 years. Had ED for the last 10 years or so.
May 2nd, 2018 Coloplast Titan implanted, 24cm with 1cm RTE's. All went well so far.

Larry10625

Re: Older wives

Postby Larry10625 » Mon Apr 16, 2018 7:57 am

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Re: Older wives

Postby stubs4245 » Sat Oct 14, 2023 9:46 am

I am 81 years old and my wife is 78, I have had ED for over 20 years. My urologist prescibed generic sildenafil. I can get an erection with stimulation by my wife using her hands. She uses a vibrator and gets an orgasm very easily. My only position for sex for me is standing and she lies down and I lift her legs and she guides me in. i can trust for 3 to 6 minutes. I cannot ejeculate by vaginal entry. I have not ejaculated inside her for about 15 years. She then uses lots of Astroglide and gives me a hand job. but it takes over 5 to 8 minutes. I feel a bit down that it takes me so long to cum, but she is a very good partner. Her talking dirty about being in charge helps. I wish I could really cum inside her. Buying her a vibrator was my best aid to our sex. She really cums easily.

oldbeek
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Re: Older wives

Postby oldbeek » Sun Oct 15, 2023 4:50 pm

When my wife had sex, it became once a month when her cycle hit. I was 80 and her 79. She loved oral sex and would flow instill my eyebrows were covered with foam. After she came , she. could not stand to have her clit touched any more. I would roller her on her face and lick her ass then move back and forth to her clit and ass until she started humping again. I then would slide my dick into her and pump while stratleing her legs. With her chubby little ass that is a very tight position. After thrusting a while and feeling her come on again, I would wet my thumb and message her ass hole. She would really turn on and that super excites me. I would slide my thumb all the way in and fuck her ass with my thumb while thrusting into her pussy with my dick till we would both explode together. I remember on my 75th birthday before PC, she gave me a blow job that I will never forget. She had me on my hands and knees with my balls lightly brushing the big hotel pillow. Her head on pillow as i gently thrusted into her mouth she caressed my balls and sucked me till I exploded into her. She never slowed a bit but gently kept sucking till I was completely soft. The nerves in my cock are super sensitive after I come. Her suck and swallow technique is the ultimate experience.
Sorry to be so graphic, but memories are all I have now as she slowly dieing of cancer as I am writing this.
82, good health, RP 7-2017, all nerves taken , PSA 0.05, 4-18,, .07 1/19,.05 4/19, .03 11-21, .04 11-23, implanted 4-1-18, Infra-pubic, AMS lgx 15 cm with 5cm rte. Implant at USC Keck. Dr Boyd and Dr Loh Doyle 6.5 x 5, 800 AUS 7-21-20

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Re: Older wives

Postby dg_moore » Sun Oct 15, 2023 6:02 pm

I was 63 and my wife 60 when a stroke ended my sex life. At that time, my wife was fine with it since she hadn't been enjoying sex all that much anyway. We're still happy together, but not intimate.
Dave, 80, Maryland - Implant (Titan) 2008 by Dr. Andrew Kramer (failed Sept 2020) - never used due to a stroke that, among other things, ended my sex life.
Life is not the way it's supposed to be, it's the way it is.


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