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Will someone please share how they find the time to masturbate so much. Ihave no problem with it at all..but where and how do you find the time. Also when you masturbate do you always masturbate to climax. I believe this is where I a, confused because everytime I find myself with a spontaneous boner, I do massage and stroke it for a while but rarely to climax. Am Idoing som ething wrong. Please several of you answer this question because so far all your advise has been "right on" and most helpful . I have learned alot and regain so much sexual function and performance!
Thank you in advance.
seeking info....aka Scott

My loss of being able to masturbate is a problem for my mental well being. my brain tell me I need to c um and so do my emotions.
Have not had orgasm for at least 3-4 mo even though I have been to rehabilate. I amm nearly 77 but it is no pleasure be an eunuch.
Ron

Padreest

Do a search on mangina. Supposedly, a guy named weurchesten who leads a yahoo group on nipple orgasms, has perfected a way to orgasm pushing the penis back into the pubic area and massaging the frenulum and urethra while also using nipple stimuation with his free hand.

When we get older, we must get inventive. You need to join the yahoo nipple orgasm group and spend your time making your body erogenous. Nipple play is a big part of it and if your nipples are not erogenous, you can make them erogenous.

The aneros is another route that older guys and younger guys have taken to rewire their prostates and achieve amazing results. I can only point you to these things because I have not experienced them, but i know they are real. It takes time and privacy to achieve these results but they are out there. I will proabably have to retire before I ever get there.

Good luck. Join the aneros and the yahoo nipple group and learn to make your body sing.

Good lord. If I could not masturbate, I would break down and cry! When I was younger, orgasms were a given. Entering my 50's the guarantee expired and performance suffered a grievous blow. Then came PC and R.A.L.P. It is a long road back to a full erection. In the meantime, masturbation keeps me sane. 4 times a week, no problem.

Ah, mention of the wavy navy here. In the old days the pirates used to wear a lace glove on the left hand, and paint their fingernails to fantasize the job being done by a woman. In Pirates of the Caribbean I have seen Johnny Depp with the same thing. I laugh but nobody else seems to get hold of the meaning.

Seems obvious, but cannot envisage why there would be a problem with masturbation as therapy unless the activity is excessive and causes(further) physical damage to nerves, muscles or blood vessels. The real issue is does it help restore damaged nerves, muscles or blood vessels.

In April Frank mentioned "edging" which reminded me of the time I visited a nursing home and as I walked by a older man in a wheelchair who was obviously massaging his penis a health care aid came by and muttered very clearly "dirty old man". My reply was, "Maybe that's the only feeling he gets - no hugs, no hand shakes, no one to stop and listen to him." At the time I did not know about edging and have since learned that the penis -flaccid or not -contains many many nerves just waiting to be stimulated with the most interesting and sometimes most satisfying results and benefits including reaching the Point of No Return.

In my search for something that works I ended up on a website that directed me to a porn addict website and they were bound and determined that there should be no masturbation at all. I am beginning to think that the whole thing just boils down to who you talk to or what site you go on. Kind of like the government coming out and doing a 180 every year or so saying what was bad is not good...

It is so confusing...

I don't see any difference between having sex 4 times a week and masturbating 4 times a week as far one will hurt you and the other (having sex 4 times a week) is great. Orgasms are orgasms. I'm convinced that masturbating is good whether we get hard or not.

Hi Alan I thought we got you going on kegels some time ago, so now's the time to restart them, this will make you shot our instead of bribbling out, and would no doubt make you feel a lot better in yourself.

Good Luck

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